The Wall That Stops Us…Life’s Decisionmaking.

When we are attempting to improve ourselves we find that we have to make some very large emotional decisions that will have such a huge impact on us that it will change the entire direction of our lives.

Most of us simply stop moving ahead. We know what we have but are afraid of what might happen. This negative thinking that each of us has is reduced to the old adage: “The devil we know is better than the devil we don’t.” This is what stops us.

I have experienced this many times during the course of my very eventful life, and that is the very reason my life has been so very eventful. What I have accomplished during any one of my years since age 13 is more than most people do in their entire lifetimes. Call it what you will: intuition; common sense; extra sensory perception (ESP); divine inspiration; spirituality; or even miracle, but whatever name is assigned to it, one thing is certain: I have made decisions and moved ahead. Some have been great, others have been wrong. Many have been strong, several have been humbling. No matter what the consequence each decision was a learning experience that now, in retrospect, has been astonishing in its own way.

Today I offer you a scientific way to make your major (and minor) decisions about life’s pathways. I never thought of decision making quite this way when it comes to my personal life, but Joe Weldon explains it perfectly.

Joe Weldon recently posted the 51% Rule (Should you change or improve). It was my delight to find a perfect solution that could be passed on to others in helping them make decisions about their lives, especially the larger decisions. Here is the link to his blog post for your enjoyment and enlightenment.
51 percent rule

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NO LIMITS! NO FEAR!

What if you were limitless?

What dreams would you take hold of and just do? How many items in your “bucket list” would you do? How many more things would you add to your bucket list? Couldn’t you fulfill those “Delusions of Grandeur” that you have always had?

I recently watched a movie named “Limitless.”

Whether you have seen the movie or not, its time to see it right after reading this blog entry.  Think of the movie as a brain expanding film, for YOUR brain.

 

 

Very interesting…especially the last words in the movie. Don’t worry, I’m not a spoiler. The movie is action packed, thought provoking, addictive, and great entertainment. But it is much, much, more than simply entertainment.

If you could actually get all the crap in your brain that is messing with your mind out of the way, you could actually do anything.  When we are born our minds are limitless. As explore our environment, restrictions begin developing. By the time we are six years old our minds have realized that there are limits. Most put there by parents for our safety. As we get into our teen years we are all messed up. We want to conform, but also want to be ourselves.  Whichever way we decide, its wrong. Once we are in our early 20′s we are so constricted by our own minds, and all the small talk that takes place there. As we get older we realize that all the restrictions and constrictions in our life have been set before we reached 6 years old. Then we decide to act like a six year old (because as old people we can get away with it), or we step up to the challenge and start enjoying life by making things happen!

The trouble is that we have wasted the time of our lives from 6 years until we come to the realization, if indeed we ever do come to the realization.

One of he best quotes in the movie is: “I don’t have disillusion of grandeur —  I have a recipe for grandeur.” -Edward Morra

We all can have a recipe for grandeur, its called goal setting. A plan for whatever we want to do, starting whenever we decide to start. Most of us either don’t believe we can have what we really want, or it is too much work to set goals, write them out, and move toward them with a plan of action. Or we tell ourselves, someday I’ll…and we all know that someday never comes.

Your homework? Watch this movie – at least twice.

Everything is possible when you open your mind.

 

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You CAN become wealthy!


Yeah, Yeah, you heard that before.

O.K. Lets get down to brass tacks…
When you heard that you can become wealthy, did you follow the advice?
Probably not.
Why?
Because although it sounded good, it was too much change in your life.
You know what your life is like now, you like the information provided, and you simply dismissed it…maybe to try later.
Why later? Because those changes aren’t you. So life continues. After all, its not that bad, and if it is, well there’s always another excuse…I’m too old, spouse will never agree, I like the way I eat now, we’re surviving o.k., and all the other crap that you sell yourself.

Why are you reading this? The answer is so obvious. Deep down you really want change in your life, you want to be independently wealthy and work only when you want to.

I hope this can get you started. It’s an excellent blog article that I came across. I agree with the author, and practice most everything on the list. Most people, like yourself, will be shocked, upset, and find this list an impossibility to follow. That is precisely why you can’t get ahead. That is why you will have a trying life. That is why you will die broke!

Follow this link, read the list, share the list with those close to you. Be honest. and begin to tackle each item, no matter how difficult it is. Why you are not Rich/Wealthy.

Its now up to you.

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How can you have an amazing fun filled life starting right now?

The short answer is “Yes, you can.”

How do I know? Because I am.

Yes you have problems. Everyone does. I was doomed to crutches, canes, and wheelchairs. I’ve had cancers & other diseases. I should be dead (several times over). I’ve been penniless  & broke (over and over). I’ve been homeless. I’ve been cold. I’ve been hungry. I’ve had IRS problems. I’ve filed bankruptcy. Face it, we all have had crap happen…it’s part of life…it’s part of growth.  What we do and how we react when faced with adversity is who we really are.

Many people ask how I could possibly accomplish so many things such as: Acquire, renovate, rent, and sell real estate both as an investor and realtor®; prepare & present seminars, training, and classes; write books and articles; read books and articles; grocery shop; cook meals; clean house; bike ride, rollerblade, and walk my dog Maggie at least 3 times per day. That’s in addition to running five companies and having a great social life. I have stated many times that I could write a very thick novel for each year of my life since age 13 (my lucky number), packed with things that the average person would never be able to accomplish, enjoy, and learn from as I have.

My life has been and will continue to be fully abundant as I enjoy all the gifts God has given me. I see the best in everybody and everything. So many people envy me – there are a lot of haters out there! I hear the lies, put downs, and viciousness toward me. Right now people reading this are getting really mad. Why? Because they are angry about their own, non-productive and useless lives and vent it toward me.

What I don’t advertise is that there are many more times that adversity has struck me than the normal person. Several near death experiences and many health issues have been overwhelming. Financial gain, ruin, gain, ruin, and gain again have been devastating. The secret was keeping a positive attitude through it all. Keep watching and reading this blog and you will learn some of the details of the muck I have had to overcome.

O.K. Now we can talk about you. How can you have an amazing fun filled life from this day forward?

You CAN change if you really want to. The question is do you really want to? If you want drastic results you have to take drastic actions. If you make minor mediocre changes, chances are that nothing will change at all.

You don’t have to make a whole lot of changes all at once, just take it one step at a time. But ensure that each step is a big drastic change.

If you are like most people you have developed habits over the years that have become part of your daily routine. It’s going to take a while to change things around. It’s going to take time…the one thing that we all wish we had more of. What would you do if you had an extra 4-6 hours of time each and every day?

You would have more time for meeting new people, time for exercise, time for actually speaking and building a strong relationship with your kids, spouse, and friends. You would have more time to develop a business, or simply just think and ponder.

You must take drastic action for drastic results. Step 1: Shut off the television. If you are envious of the life I have then stop living the lives of the television characters. Start living your own life. I don’t watch television. When Princess Diana died on August 31, 1997, I had no idea. Her death, although sad, did not affect my personal life or my finances. I stepped out of my rented Cape Cod cottage a couple of day later and met my neighbors discussing the funeral. They were amazed that I had no idea of her death. You see I didn’t have television, radio, or any other instrument of bad news. It didn’t matter to me. Likewise when dictator Muammar Gaddafi died four days ago and Libya is now liberated, I didn’t get the news until I overheard it in a discussion about another topic this morning. It doesn’t affect me.How much time have you wasted listening, watching, and learning more about this news item that will not directly affect your personal or financial life? If you used that time to build your personal relationships or think of a new way to build a better mouse trap, or took the time to meditate and pray, you would be much better off.

Drastic Change #1: Check out the links…then shut off your television.
Television Statistics that will shock you
Once you checked out that link check out this one:
Top 10 Reasons to Turn Off Your TVGet whatever life you want!
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Investor Wholesaling Scams

I grind my teeth and become extremely upset when I hear of a new ‘green’ real estate investor being taken advantage of.

Unfortunately, I see it all the time. People attend real estate investment meetings to network with and learn from others who can help them. Unfortunately there are many predators in the crowd always looking for victims to scam.

From the platform when speaking is when I see what nobody else can see. For example: I may ask how many people are new to real estate investing and the hands go up. As people are looking around and identifying the newbies, I see an immediate shift in the room. Some movements are slow and some are quick. Certain people in the room begin gravitating to the newbies, handing them a card, and beginning small talk. Usually, these quick aggressive people in the room are the ones to watch out for. They will befriend the ‘green’ or ‘newbie’ investor and plan any number of scams to get their money.

Most other people who sincerely want to help new people are not sneaky, and are not afraid to stand up and let people know their name, number, and how they can help. It’s the other ones that concern me.

The vilest are those who are actually managing or operating the meeting. These are the ones that newbies tend to trust more and therefor are prone to be sucked in. Just beware. Seek out and talk to others who have had experience with the person supposedly trying to help you. If you can’t find any the reason is because after getting ripped off once, they don’t return and consequently are not in the crowd.

At the investment meetings that I operate (UltiamteREIA.com), I identify these people from the platform, make notes of them, and check them out. Many times I will ban them from coming to future meetings in an attempt to keep people a little safer.

Please let others know about this blog so I can stop grinding my teeth so much.

What sparked me to write this blog entry is an excellent video that explains Wholesaling Scams, which I am seeing more and more of at the investment meetings. William Bronchick, CEO of Legalwiz Publications, nationally-known, attorney, author, entrepreneur, and speaker is the person teaching about this scam on the video. The link is posted here for your perusal.

Wholesale Flip Scam – All Investors Beware!

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Winning in the CASH FLOW Business – But not with Russ Dalbey

 

Feds Charge Get Rich Quick Russel Dalbey!

I don’t know how many people I had warned about this guy. It amazes me that people won’t listen to someone tell them NO as I have, but they buy the scam anyway!
Finally this guy is put to a stop

Click the above link to see the whole story.

If you want to know how to do something involving Real Estate…ask me.I have been involved in creative real estate investing for close to 30 years…I can spot a scammer a mile a way.  I can show you how to invest the right and honest way…Including mortgage Note Buying and Selling!

Click This to learn Real Estate Investing Correctly!!!

UltimateREIA.com

 

 

 

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Let’s foreclose on the bank for a change!

Click the following link for a look at some sweet justice.

Let’s foreclose on the bank for a change!

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Suitcase Full of Cash

I know so much about money, how to make it, and how to lose it. In order to help you accumulate money and wealth I will be writing or posting from others the knowledge you can use to become and remain financially independent and gain wealth. Check out this article for starters: Suitcase Full of Cash

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Alcohol Abstinence

Yesterday’s blog was inspired by one of my Real Estate Investment Students about tithing.  Today’s blog is stemming from the same conversation.  Yesterday I asked him which church he went to and he said “Calvary Christian Church in Lynnfield” Massachusetts.

Last night I went to the Church’s website. The website was full of excellent Christian knowledge. There were excellent professional videos on their core values; there is a list of their Fundamental Truths; and then I found their “Position Papers”. These are the Assemblies of God Church’s “Official” detailed explanations on their beliefs about controversial issues that from time to time arise.  The very first “Position Papers” on the church’s list (alphabetically) grabbed my attention because it pertains to alcoholic beverages and consumption. The title is “Abstinence”.   The reason this “grabbed me” was that I am involved with alcohol & drug recovery homes known as Scholar House Communities.   I read the paper in detail, looked up and considered most of the Bible references that were provided, and studied the topic for a while.

Many good points were pointed out. I suggest this as good reading for anyone wanting to be a good steward of our Christian body temples.

Although it was not directly stated in this church paper, one of the biggest ‘take aways’ that I received was that drink (other than water) of any kind in the bible was described as “wine”. Not necessarily wine as we know it today as a fermented alcoholic substance. Logic suggests that Jesus and others of the time did not continually drink alcoholic wine, as they would be “plastered” all the time. It only stands to reason that anything other than water was referred to as wine, whether it was orange juice, grape juice, tea, or other beverages. My new understanding of the use of the word ‘wine’ in the bible makes perfect sense.
This morning when I woke up, I re-read and contemplated this topic again. Then I went on reading other non-related church “Position Papers”. The thoughts in my mind kept coming back to Abstinence.

I decided about 10:00am to make a momentous decision to never allow any alcoholic beverage to pass my lips again!

I have had one major rule for guests to my personal homes: “You can eat or drink anything that is found anywhere in my home except in the case where there is beer in the refrigerator.   You can consume all the beer or anything else you want unless there are only two beers left.  Do not touch these beers.   They are reserved for me (Alan).   Sometimes, very rarely, I just want to have a beer or two.   When this desire arises, I reserve the opportunity to simply open the refrigerator and have one without having to go out and buy one.   Please respect the two beer rule.”

If you have ever been a guest in any of my personal homes, you know this rule.  As of today it no longer applies.   I don’t drink any alcohol anymore…at all!   If you are visiting any of my homes and find alcoholic beverages, they were left by a previous guest.   You are welcome to consume them if you wish.  My suggestion is to simply pour them down the sink and dispose of the container.

By the way, I took a break after writing the last paragraph. I just poured out two perfectly good “Boddington’s Pub Ale” that were sitting in the back of my refrigerator for over 6 months. If you want success, it’s your turn.

No more poisonous alcohol will deliberately be placed into this Temple of God.
Any comments?

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Tithing? Reverse Tithing?

I just got off the phone with one of my Real Estate Investing Students. He was saying that tithing 10% was tough and wanted to know my thoughts. He wanted to cut down his tithe until he made money in real estate. I told him that he should start tithing more…such as 11% this year (2011). Then next year (2012) up the tithe to 12%. I’m just a little guy giving advice here, but I look to Rick Warren the author of “A Purpose Driven Life”, for advice on the topic.

Here is something to think about as Rick tells us about he and his wife’s tithing:
“Kay and I became reverse tithers. When we got married 30 years ago, we began tithing 10%. Each year we would raise our tithe 1% to stretch our faith: 11% the first year, 12% the second year, 13% the third year. Every time I give, it breaks the grip of materialism in my life. Every time I give, it makes me more like Jesus. Every time I give, my heart grows bigger. And so now, we give away 90% and we live on 10%. That was actually the easy part, what to do with the money–just give it away, because I’m storing up treasures in heaven.”

My personal thoughts back reverse tithing all the way.

Read more: http://www.beliefnet.com/Faiths/Christianity/2005/10/Rick-Warrens-Second-Reformation.aspx?p=2#ixzz1I5cnu8sE

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